He want to meet me?

When my 13 year old talked about Todd, I thought they were just friends, but deep down I knew they were more.
One day in the car she told me, "Todd said he would like to meet you." Meet me? Why? My husband and I told her she was not allowed to have a boyfriend until she is 16. I asked her why again. "He just would like to," she replied. I told her I would have to think about it. (That was the dumbest thing I could have said). Why am I afraid to meet a 14 year old boy? If this happens to you, say "Yes, honey I'd be happy to meet him." Don't ignore the relationship and hope it goes away. Be proactive!